There is a lot to consider when it comes to selecting your wedding date. This is a date that you have to be ready to commit to so you must consider a number of things prior to your final date. 7 out of 10 couples get married on a Saturday. Friday and Sundays are the next best options for weddings. As many times as I have done weddings, I can count on one had how many non-Saturday weddings I have done. To be honest, that number is two (4), yes, four out of over sixty-three (63) weddings I’ve done over the past 10 years. We will explore the pros and cons of Friday and Sunday weddings in this post.
The first thing to consider is the price. Saturday wedding are the most costly of all weekend events although, Saturday day-time events are less costly than Saturday evenings when it comes to booking a wedding. Friday and Sundays cost significantly less. So if you are looking to save money then consider a Friday or Sunday date.
Second, there are more date options with Friday and Sunday weddings. Some couples book Saturday weddings over a year in advance. So if you have a tighter timeline, you may want to select a different day of the week if your heart is set on a certain day or venue. Now, if you have time to spare, make setting your wedding date a year or more out and your venue to have your wedding at priority # 1 and 2. You should for certain get your dream date and venue. It also provides you an opportunity to save money and/or solicit monies from family and friends.
Third, attendance levels will vary. Saturdays are most popular for weddings because they are right in the middle of the weekend, and most guests love having Sunday to relax and recuperate. Friday and Saturday nights have proved to received a few more “no’s” with RSVPs due to other commitments. So, be prepared to have a high attrition rate when you schedule a Friday or Sunday, those days are cheap for a reason but it is perfect for a couple that wants a small and intimate celebration in the first place.
Fourth, you will save money on vendors. The more popular the day, the more expensive the vendors and services will be. You have better chances of negotiating rates on days that are not in high demand.
Sixth, you may have some late arrivals/early departures. On a Friday or Sunday wedding; you run the risk of some people coming late due to work, sports games and travel set backs. Similarly, on Sunday people may come late due to their religious obligations, and they may have to leave early to prepare for the upcoming work week.
There are many more pros for Friday and Sunday weddings, and with anything there are a few potential cons. It is entirely up to the couple and what their preferences are. So, which day of the week did you get married on or which day are you planning to get married on? Comment below and let us know!
Tracy Pope
Devoted to Your Event